Therapy for Couples & Relationships
in California
Supporting high conflict, divorce, enm, polyamory and conscious uncoupling
In-person in Los Angeles
Virtual in California
I help Millenial and GenX couples who experience consistent conflict learn how to communicate better and establish stronger intimacy and connection.
Hi, I’m Tina Marie Del Rosario
For over 13 years, I have helped Gen X and Millennial couples with
navigating conflict
emotional disconnection
communication breakdowns
the challenges that slowly erode a relationship over time
Maybe you and your partner find yourselves stuck in the same arguments without resolution, feeling unheard, misunderstood, unsupported, or emotionally distant despite still caring deeply for one another.
Perhaps you’ve started questioning
whether the relationship can truly improve
deciding between wanting things to work or if it may be time to let go
if your relationship has shifted into “roommate mode” where the connection, intimacy, playfulness, and emotional closeness that once came naturally, will ever come back
I provide a space to help you better understand the patterns keeping you stuck and begin rebuilding communication, connection, trust, and emotional safety together.
Why Working with Me is Different
Many couples come to therapy after already trying couples counseling before and feeling disappointed, frustrated, or hopeless about whether things can truly change. Often, previous therapy may have focused primarily on communication techniques, surface-level problem solving, or taking turns expressing feelings without helping couples understand the deeper emotional, neurobiological, and relational patterns driving the conflict underneath.
In many cases, couples leave therapy intellectually understanding each other better, yet still finding themselves stuck in the same cycles of defensiveness, shutdown, resentment, emotional disconnection, or repeated arguments at home. Insight alone is often not enough to create lasting relational change.
My approach is different because I integrate evidenced-based practices that focus not only on what is happening in the relationship, but why it keeps happening neurobiologically, emotionally, and relationally.
Together, we explore how each partner’s nervous system, attachment experiences, core beliefs, triggers, communication style, and protective patterns shape the relationship dynamic. Rather than simply teaching couples to ‘communicate better,’ I help partners increase awareness of themselves and each other in real time so they can respond differently during moments of stress, conflict, disconnection, or vulnerability.
What Changes Happen When We Work Together
You stop arguing and start having conversations
You feel heard, understood and seen
Intimacy is reignited
You no longer feel like roommates, and find connection again
Life is too short to not experience love, partnership, and connection in a healthier and more meaningful way.
How I Can Support You
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HIGH CONFLICT
Support for couples experiencing recurring arguments, emotional reactivity, communication breakdowns, resentment, defensiveness, or difficulty repairing after conflict.
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ENM & POLYAMORY
Therapy for ethically non-monogamous, open, and polyamorous relationships focused on communication, boundaries, emotional safety, trust, jealousy, attachment dynamics, and navigating complex relational systems.
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CONSCIOUS UNCOUPLING
Support for couples choosing to separate in a healthier, more intentional, and emotionally respectful way while reducing unnecessary harm, conflict, and emotional distress.
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DISCERNMENT
A structured process designed for couples who feel uncertain about whether to stay together or separate and want clarity before making major relationship decisions.
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BETTER COMMUNICATION
Helping couples improve communication, navigate difficult conversations, strengthen emotional understanding, and move beyond unhealthy communication cycles.
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BUSINESS THERACOACHING
Business Theracoaching combines psychological insight with business strategy to help businesses, leaders and teams improve communication, navigate conflict, strengthen culture, and create healthier, more effective work environment.
Client Reviews
"Tina Marie saved my marriage, when I thought there was no hope!"
— Former Client"I've been working with Tina and my partner and it has been one of the best learning and healing experiences I've ever had in therapy. The treatment has been illuminating, and has provided tools for understanding. It has given my tools for life in a kind and empathetic manner that has truly impacted my life for the better.”
— Former Client"I have been a client of Healing Collective for 5 years. My experience with Tina Marie has been in an invaluable asset to my life and mental health. I have recommended her services to several people who have gone on to work with Tina Marie and have rewarding journeys of their own. I feel strongly that anyone interested in therapy should contact the Healing Collective. They will be so happy they did.
— Former Client